How to Stay Motivated When You Are Training on Your Own

Nobody feels motivated all the time. People who train consistently are not more inspired than everyone else, they have simply built arrangements that mean they go out anyway. That is a skill, and it is learnable.

Stop relying on motivation

Motivation is a feeling, and feelings are poor project managers. The people who keep going treat training like brushing their teeth: a thing that happens at a certain time, not a thing that requires a decision. The decision is the expensive part.

Seven things that genuinely work

  1. Fix the time, not the amount. “I walk at seven” survives a bad week. “I walk five miles” does not.
  2. Make the first two minutes trivially easy. Shoes by the door, kit laid out the night before. Most sessions are won or lost before you leave the house.
  3. Lower the bar on bad days. A ten minute walk keeps the habit alive. Skipping entirely is what breaks it.
  4. Track a total, not a streak. Streaks punish you for one missed day. A running total towards 50 or 100 miles only ever goes up.
  5. Give yourself a deadline with something at the end. An abstract intention to get fitter is much weaker than a specific distance with a medal attached.
  6. Recruit one other person. Not a club, just one. Someone who notices if you do not go.
  7. Change the route. A surprising amount of drop-off is simple boredom with the same pavement.

The mid-challenge slump

Almost every longer challenge has a point, usually somewhere around the middle, where the novelty has worn off and the finish is not yet close enough to pull you. This is normal and it passes. Two things help: recalculate how much you have left rather than how much you have done, and give yourself permission to go slower rather than to stop.

When to actually rest

There is a difference between not fancying it and needing a break. Persistent joint pain, unusual fatigue that lasts days, disrupted sleep and a resting heart rate that has crept up are signals to take two or three days off properly. Pushing through those is how people end up losing a month.

Make it concrete

Vague goals are the enemy here. Pick a distance, pick an activity and pick a date. Our virtual challenges let you choose all three, and you can walk, jog, run, cycle, swim or use a treadmill. If you want the accountability of doing it with other people, have a look at teams, schools and workplaces.